You Cannot Always be Liked

There is censored foul language, just in case you may be offended. Okay now read.

It just is the way things are. It doesn't matter how hard I try. I cannot pretend to like someone and sometimes my dislike shows openly even if I don't want it to. This is both good and bad, but at least some people know not to cross my path.

You know what? You can't always like certain people. In every area of life, there are just those people that will always make you feel like reaching up into your skull from your mouth and pulling your hair out (if that was possible) or they'll make you feel like obliterating their very existence. I would not attempt the second one though *laughs nervously*

That first instinct you have when you meet someone for the first time, is always true. So many times I've ignored my instincts and I always ended up regretting why I even thought these people were worth my time.

So just remember that there will be those people that make you wonder how their parents managed to not dump them out on the street. It's a mean thought, I know. You may wonder how they live with themselves, I mean, actually how do they live?! But... emphasis on but. These annoying unbearable people are also just being their human selves. They are probably dealing with some personal issues and they just can't help but make other people suffer. You just have to know how to handle them and how to live around them. You don't always have to be nice to them but you can always ignore that part of them and deal with the part that you can tolerate. You can always take time to understand where they're coming from or you can just completely step out of their way. Don't soak in the negativity. It will haunt you if you don't know how to deal with negative energies.

REMEMBER, if it turns into verbal, physical or emotional abuse, THEN WALK THE F OUT! You should never lower your standards of life just to accommodate someone's rotten attitude. Your will to live should never be reduced to nothing just because of such people. KNOW YOUR F*****G WORTH and as mother always tells me, BE THE BEST PERSON YOU CAN BE. Stay away from toxic people. They are everywhere, their toxicity may spread and without knowing, you may start hurting others unintentionally.

You can let people know they cannot mess with you and anyway, respect should be reciprocated, right? Don't try to please everyone and don't be mean about it either (unless it's necessary)😀

Think about it. What if you're unbearable to someone else, hmmmm?👀

Bye for now💖