Just life and stuff

Ghosting is the act of going silent on another person. 'Ghosters' are narcissists and don't deserve you. Ghosting is a form of emotional abuse. In the context where you are being abused physically or verbally then please feel free to ghost (and get help) You have been talking and flirting with a certain someone and it has been more than six months of developing feelings and trust. This person tells you how special you are to them and that they want to make things work. This is what you want as well. You feel happy and content. You feel special. You now have a significant other. Then y ou start to notice that this persons’ texts are getting shorter and shorter. They are taking more time to reply. The call durations are reducing and sometimes your missed calls aren't returned. We all know what this feels like. You brush it off and assume that they are just busy and haven’t had the chance to tell you. You don’t want to come off as clingy and annoying so you give i...

last month, my sweet mother got tickets for a movie about the apostle Paul. a movie to watch during easter. i was excited mainly because i love going to the cinema which is a rare occasion. in total i think I've gone about eight times 😐 nine including this one. the first time ever was a Pinocchio movie. it was in French and i was a small human. this movie was showing on the Saturday of easter at 6pm. we were at home and mother had left the house to ran errands. father must have been resting or also running errands. my sister, my brothers and i were lounging. in the afternoon, sister went to the shower to wash her hair plus wash up. do you even want to know the time she took in there? no you don't. it was around 4pm when mother walked in and her first words as she put her foot into the house were "I hope mko tayari (i hope you're ready)" and whenever she says those words, you had better hurry. we live in the end of the world meaning we're far from e...

A visual representation of how i felt like yesterday i was feeling so tired and then it turned to feeling tired plus sick. i had a headache that just wouldn't go away. my back hurt and so i didn't feel like sitting down yet standing was torturous. i was really afraid that i was falling ill. i hoped that was not the case because going to the doctor will mean that i'll be given antibiotics. I'm not exaggerating but the sight of medicine makes me feel like throwing up YUCK! i hate medicine. first of all swallowing tablets is nearly impossible. they get stuck in my throat and that's a very scary feeling. i don't know how i got a small throat or something because no one else in my family seems to have this issue. my dad, brother and sister can swallow more than one tab at a go. that to me, is supernatural. i'd like to speak to the manager in charge of throat sizes. WHY DO I HAVE A SMALL ONE? for me, a Panadol is hard enough. on a good day, it w...

there's a neighbour's dog that loves to run out of their gate. every chance he gets, he runs up and down our street. thankfully it's not busy with cars. this dog is such a sweet one. he's a quiet one too. this morning as i was walking down the street, sweet doggo runs towards me and then past me. i was a bit sad since i really wanted to pet him. i kept walking when i heard a good boy panting. he was running in my direction. oh i was so happy and i gave the good boy many rubs and pats and kisses. my morning was made by today's happening and i wanted to write it here. i love dogs but unfortunately, i don't have one or ten😢 anyway, when i walked out of the main gate, doggo was trying really hard to run out onto the main street. the guard wouldn't let him out. i later noticed some of doggo's hairs on my coat which i've been picking out. this doge makes me look forward to going back home and leaving for work in the morning, knowing that i mi...