Just life and stuff

Hello my virtual people. Apparently my post on ghosting inspired someone. *a loud enthusiastic yaaaay is shouted* So I present you, my friend's story. 👻👻👻 IS IT A RELATIONSHIP OR SITUATIONSHIP? For a long time, I had confused ‘situationships’ with relationships. They say when you are young you don’t really know the true meaning of love. As women, most times we confuse love with infatuation. The same applies to men too. Just because a man is treating you with care, it does not mean that he loves you. Believe me, I have been through this. This may not apply to every person. Well, my story is different. It has been a sad experience with mixed emotions and bad decisions. The guy that I supposedly was in ‘love’ with is a whole lot of things to describe. At first, he appeared to be a nice guy. We would talk and hang out with lots of communication between us but as time went by, a lot changed. It all started with less communication. Days would go by with no phone call...

I'm sitting and as usual, I'm thinking of things. Have you ever had a first instinct where everything in you screams "STOP, DON'T YOU DARE TAKE IT A STEP FURTHER." You go ahead and think, "What's the worst that could happen eh? It's a fake voice in my head. In fact, that's the voice of fear." And so you take that step into what becomes your newest life's regret. *sad yaaaaay!* I keep ignoring those first bad instincts, or bad feelings and they always come back to bite my small butt. I beat myself up about it and think, "If only I had taken things slowly and thought about the long-term stuff." But the thing is, how do you know that it really is a bad thing you're getting into? What if you're about to waste a golden opportunity by stepping back? This always confuses me and so I sometimes find myself in more butt-biting situations. However, I am happy to say that I have learned a few things: Each experience you ge...